Work had been quite eventful lately. Having to handle nursery children looking after them n speaking to them buy they dun understand what I am trying to say. Could be fun and tiring. However, the thing that is keeping me awake is the event that happened today. Or should I say yesterday.

Before continuing, i must mentioned that am not trying to label the child But I do wish I can do something for the child. Since the beginning I had been having problem handling the child. the child had scratched me n other children hurl abuses etc due to anger n even today as well. Threw temper n banging doors. But is all Co's he could not neutralize the anger. I had research thinking that it is due to anger management. Thus the solutions was to allow the child to have time to cool down. But reflecting through. I could have improve in one area. I should not had let the child bang the door. There is a fine line between anger n aggressiveness so I read. Anger is Okay. But being aggressive. I should had been firm n stopped it. I could not help it if the child dun find me fierce enough though I had given my 101%. But I could had been firm when the child shows aggressiveness n destroy properties or hurt people.

I just want to say. Though it is keeping me awake, but I had learnt another valuable lesson today.being firm and being angry is two different thing. Learning to control n implement firmness requires time,experience n patience. Will work towards it. Hopefully I can show the mother who .doubt my ability n for myself. I will keep learning. =)

Goodnight.

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